This is another book that has truly changed my life.
I met the author at a course I took in Bellingham, WA that we both participated in. She's the real deal! And she's been such an inspiration to me because she herself raised a really smart and intense child. She's a fantastic mentor and role model for parents struggling with all kinds of child-rearing issues. I have multiple copies of her books and loan them out.
The book is called "The Pocket Coach for Parents - Your two-week guide to a dramatically improved life with your intense child" by Tina Feigal, M.S. Ed and it's available at Amazon.com
Tina helps adults deal with intense children so they can act from their values of compassion and kindness, without giving in to unreasonable requests. She offers an approach that deeply honors the child while holding firm limits, giving both adults and children a secure framework in which to thrive.
www.nurturedheart.com